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I had many many older men ask me out when I was young; it creeped me out! Going out with a man who is old but for cash is unconscionable. HAving an old man's baby - who won't be there for his children is not OK just because he will leave lots of cash ; money doesn't replace a father. Right guys?????
Well, first of all, the man is older in the vast majority of marriages, and more so in 2nd marriages. And women generally want a man who's "loaded" of any age, really. If he's young, they want him to potentially be "loaded" by insisting on someone who's ambitious and has energy, and is likely to earn money in the future to support her when she's pregnant, etc. And it's not at all surprising that women would want an older man who's had a long time to have that ambition pay off in terms of earning money.
So it's no surprise that women would do not want an older man without money, because that would be proof that he was never ambitious and has no interests and no passion. Of course there are exceptions, but this is generally true. Depends on his health too. Life has no guarantees. So sometimes you might fret about this, and then it turns out the older man lives a long time and the woman who's younger dies early of breast cancer.
And most marriages don't even last 13 years, so this concern is really academic in most cases anyway. Too cynical. In this day and age where women are getting college degrees in greater numbers than men, and women can earn real money, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense to hook up with an older man you don't like sexually, and have kids with him, and "waste" your whole life like that. No, in many cases, the feelings of love are real. And these days, one problem for many women in their 30's is they seem to find men their own age to be jobless and immature, too frequently playing only video games in the parents' basement after coming home from college and can't find a job.
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And a lot of these extended-adolescent men are just taking video game breaks with pizza and porn, and might give Tinder a quick try. They realize women their own age aren't interested in many of them anyway, and see some of them going for older men who are more established. My wife stayed married to me because I made enough money for her to enjoy the lifestyle my money provided.
There was almost no sex, and when there was, it was "Hurry up and cum already. She might have been better in bed for the next guy since she'd have to actually work for her support.
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I was 53 when I married my wife, she was I had had a number of close, intimate relationships in my life, but had never married. She had come off a relationship with a boyfriend her own age who had beaten her up badly at least a couple of times she has a plate in her mouth, which she never removes, where some teeth are missing as a result of these attacks - it took me a year to discover that fact. I couldn't offer her financial security, I wasn't that interested in having children it never happened anyway after we got married.
What I could offer her was the fact that I was a nice, quiet guy who would let her grow as a person, would encourage her further education, and would not hurt her, physically or emotionally. I don't hit people, I won't even shout at them!
After 16 years now, we are still together and we are extremely fond of each other. And if anything, my health is in better shape than hers. I think it has to do with maturity. Often youll find an older man less mature so he seeks a younger woman, who in turn is probably more mature so she seeks out an older man. I have seen a mature younger woman marrying an older man with less maturity than herself. I often wonder if it has to do with that, a paradox. I'm a female in my early 30's and I've been attracted to older men as long as I can remember Like pretty much ever since I was a young teenager.
I was never into guys my own age and I never went through the "teen heartthrob" phase. I liked guys in their late 30's to early 50's.
Ain't Nothing Like Being Married to an Old, Elderly Man
As I've gotten older, this hasn't changed. I've come across some very attractive older men in my life And it's not necessary just looks although a handsome older man will always win over a handsome younger man I find older men way more visually appealing. There's definitely a maturity aspect as well. I was in a situation where I came across an older man at my place of work.
We became friends and there was obviously a mutual attraction but neither of us ever pushed the issue But I will say that the single most attractive thing about him was his intelligence. He was extremely smart. He was also confident and charismatic. I've never met anyone that I have enjoyed talking to as much as I enjoyed conversing with him. That was a few years ago, but the experience made me realize that I seek older men a certain type, that is because they have experience, and the wisdom, confidence and emotional stability that comes with it. Young men just don't resonate with me.
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They usually turn out to be very conflicted, insecure, and completely not on my level when it comes to intellectual pursuits. I don't mean to ramble, but I just wanted to give an account as someone who is genuinely attracted to older men. I don't have daddy issues and I'm quite independent I just like what I like. Okay, so this has been my experience with older me. I am 30 years old, and on my second marriage. I got married the first time when I was 23 to someone who was 34 and we were married for like a year. The truth is he was too mature for me. He didn't want to go out and drink as much, he wanted me to have my career aspects all figured out To be fair to him, he was a great guy, but Yes, men the women is going to be younger longer and we all know you want that pretty young thing on your arm, and we want a guy who makes money and can support us, but other then those things, you do not have much in common.
I want to add ladies, I am now married to a man who is my age, well a year older 31, and we are incredibly happy and we can grow together.
We know the same bands, we grew up with the same shows, we have the same humor. Maybe not what everyone needs, but I do think that most women should give a man their own age a chance. It's fun to grow together. My second husband is 28 years older than me. I have more money than he does. I can't have children. We have loads in common Some people are just right for each other and age simply isn't an issue. I know he will probably die before me, but in the words of Julia Roberts in Steele Magnolias, "I would rather have thirty minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special.
My husband is twenty years younger than me and you cannot produce a picture of you? I think that you want to keep women down, as they can make a choice. Times are changing and women need to get into the driver seat to make the true scientific studies, as I am older , visual, beautiful, and find no want for a man twenty years older than me. It may happen on occasion but ladies please do not sabotage your future heirs, you will only hurt them.
I do not want a wrinkly old man sleeping next to me. Why is it ok for your younger husband to sleep next to a wrinkly old woman, but it's not ok for me to sleep next to my older husband? I had a hysterectomy due to severe endometriosis at 29 years old, I'm almost 37 now.
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The rest of your post is undecipherable. Is English your second language? I could post a picture, but you would just say it's fake, so what's the point. I'm not sure why being with an older man would "keep women down". My first husband was my age and abusive, so your logic doesn't make sense in that aspect. Some men, regardless of age, abuse and belittle women. It sounds like you are a control freak who wants to be in charge in the relationship. My husband and I are equal partners. I do not know how you can say a wrinkly old woman?
I look like a younger woman, and if you are misunderstanding, then lets put it on the table now, as I had endometriosis as well.